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Same season. Same questions. Same feelings. You found your village.

Because becoming a mother changes everything, including who you are. And you should not have to figure that out alone.

Community events for mums in London: walks, brunches, reformer Pilates, workshops and coffee mornings across Barnet and Enfield. Babies welcome. Come as you are.

Mums together at a Mère + Me workshop

For mums in London

Events built for the season you are in.

Walks, brunches, reformer Pilates, workshops and coffee mornings, designed for the early postpartum season. Babies welcome. No need to have it together. Just come as you are.

Over 400 mums have found their village through Mère + Me.

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Our manifesto

Why Mère + Me exists.

When I had my daughter, I didn't know anyone else who was pregnant. My friends were in a different season of life entirely. My family were 200 miles away. And for the first several months of my daughter's life, I was completely alone in it.

I reached out to other local mum communities, twice. I was ignored both times.

When I finally found the confidence to go out, what was available didn't feel built for me. Council-run stay and plays in cold church halls. Baby sensory classes that were wonderful for babies, but offered nothing for the mum sitting behind them, exhausted and quietly wondering who she was now.

There was no space that said: you matter here. Not just as a mother. As a woman.

So I built one.

Mère + Me is for every mum who has ever felt invisible in this season. Who has googled "mum groups near me" at midnight. Who has stood outside a coffee shop with a pram and lost her nerve. Who has a house full of people who love her and still feels completely alone.

This is not about where you went to school, how much you earn, or what your life looked like before. It is about right now. The feeds and the questions and the identity shift that nobody warned you about. The village you deserve and maybe haven't found yet.

You have found it now.

Shakila, founder of Mère + Me

400+

Mums in the community

66

Events since launch

100%

Would recommend

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What's on

What's on near you.

Events across London, every week. Always baby-friendly. Always worth showing up for.

From the village

In their words.

Such a needed community to have as a first time mum on maternity leave. Thank you Shakila for putting Mère + Me together.
Mère + Me member, Mother's Day Brunch
I have loved attending Mère + Me events with my little one. It has been wonderful to connect with other mums and the events are brilliant, everything is thought of.
Mère + Me member, Workshop
How welcoming and friendly everyone was. So nice to have a community like this.
Mère + Me member, Mother's Day Brunch

From our events

Lived, together.

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